My name is Natalie O'Riordan I  am a psychotherapist working with adults who are experiencing anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, complex family dynamics, and the effects of difficult or painful earlier experiences.

My work is based on the belief that many emotional difficulties make sense when understood in context. Patterns that now feel frustrating, confusing, or self-defeating often developed for a reason. They may have once helped you cope, protect yourself, stay connected, or manage difficult environments. Therapy creates space to understand these patterns properly and begin changing the ones that no longer serve you.

My professional background includes more than a decade of experience across mental health services. This has included assessing people for psychological treatment and working with both common and more complex psychiatric presentations. I also have experience navigating healthcare systems, including the NHS, particularly where people have more complicated needs.

In therapy, I aim to offer a space that is thoughtful, direct, and grounded. The work is collaborative. We look at what is happening now, what may have shaped it, and what needs to change. This may involve exploring anxiety, mood, trauma, attachment patterns, family relationships, identity, boundaries, emotional regulation, or the way you relate to yourself and others.

For people experiencing discrimination or feeling different

Some people move through the world having parts of who they are misunderstood, questioned, minimised, or treated as outside the norm. This may relate to race, culture, ethnicity, religion, language, class, disability, neurodivergence, gender, sexuality, age, migration history, or other aspects of identity and lived experience.

These experiences can involve masking, code switching, being expected to explain yourself, being treated as different, or encountering assumptions and systemic bias. They are not simply personal difficulties. They can affect how safe it feels to speak openly, take up space, trust others, or feel a sense of belonging.

Therapy should not become another place where these realities are ignored or reduced. Where relevant, I aim to understand your experiences within the wider social, cultural, and relational contexts that shape them.

What happens when you get in touch

You are welcome to arrange a complimentary fifteen minute phone consultation. This gives you the opportunity to ask questions, get a sense of how I work, and decide whether it feels like the right fit.

If you choose to proceed, you will receive a confirmation email with practical details, including session times, fees, and information about attending your appointment.

The first session is warm and unhurried. We'll cover the practical things, confidentiality, how the sessions work, what you can expect. But mostly I'll be asking questions. A lot of them. You're always in control of what you share and when.

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I approach therapy as a process of careful enquiry. Often, people arrive knowing that something is not right, but not yet knowing exactly what it is, where it comes from, or why it has become so difficult to shift.

Part of my role is to help you understand that more clearly. This means paying attention to who you are, what has shaped you, the experiences that have influenced how you see yourself and others, and the patterns that may now be standing between you and the life you want.

This understanding rarely emerges in one session. The pace of the work is led by you. Therapy allows time to notice what is happening beneath the surface and to make sense of it carefully.

I am often listening for the places where things do not quite fit. Someone may describe a parent as cruel while still feeling compelled to seek their approval. Someone may speak often of loneliness while also finding themselves withdrawing or pushing others away. These contradictions are not failures or flaws. They are often the places where the most important emotional material is held.

I also bring my own humanity into the work where I believe it is clinically helpful. Many people judge themselves harshly for thoughts or feelings they find unacceptable, particularly when those feelings are directed towards people they love. Therapy can help create space to understand these experiences without shame. Difficult thoughts and emotions do not define who you are. They are part of being human: complex, conflicted, and capable of change.